Okay,
so I have reached the other side of goodbye, and this is my first
post from there. As anticipated, it is quite amazing out here in
California, and though I miss India, I know I am going to have a
blast here. It has been about two weeks since we moved, and we have
already settled down quite a bit (the complete set up may take some
more time, but the basic stuff is done.) We've got a nice apartment,
the kitchen is all set, essential furniture has also been bought and
assembled, we've got bikes for some mobility, have applied for SSN,
and opened bank accounts. My husband has joined work and I am in the
process of applying for my work permit. And we have started preparing
for the driving license test. That was a quick update on where things
are.
Now,
everyone back home has been asking me how I am finding it here, since
this is my first time in the US. Well, after having spent thirty one
years in India, US is definitely a new world altogether. From
assembling our own furniture to cooking and cleaning on our own
instead of happily letting the maids take care of everything, lots of
things have changed. Though the various equipments do make household
chores more convenient, we are yet to get used to doing everything ourselves. And while I
am enjoying learning new ways and eating food that I cook as of now,
let's see how long that lasts. But that's not the only thing I have
to get used to. The eerie quietness that surrounds me all day long
gets to me sometimes, after the constant sound of life I was
accustomed to in India. I suppose I will really start to like the
silence in a few weeks, but as of now I whole heartedly welcome the
sound of the Caltrain that passes by through one of the nearby tracks
every few hours. Another thing that takes me totally by surprise even
after two weeks here is when cars seem to stop miles away upon seeing
me cross a road, unlike in India where at most places one has to
brace oneself and bravely walk right in to the chaotic traffic. There
are more cars than people to be seen on the roads here, and I almost
squealed with delight when I saw a crowd at a farmer's market. My
husband, who has been to the US several times in the past, seems to
be quite amused by how I am adapting to this new life. It is all a
lot of fun, and I am enjoying every bit of it.
So
that's the story so far. Now, I offer you a glimpse of what lies
ahead. In an earlier post, I had talked about how my life was all set
for a massive change. Well, the process has begun. As I wait for my
work permit and my husband gets busy with his work, I will have ample
time to do the things I have been longing to do for years. And if
things go as per my plan, the work permit should only enable me to
get paid for the things that I love doing. The next few months will
be focused on finding some answers. And to ensure that I have some
accountability, I would like to announce what I intend to accomplish
in the next three months.
My
Goals for the Next Three Months:
1. To take up and complete a course from Live Your Legend (more on
this in a separate post)
2. To complete the first draft of a book I have been working on
3. To resume a regular habit of exercising – a combination of Zumba,
walking, running, biking – one hour every day, 5 days a week
I have
some smaller goals too, which I will talk about if the need arises.
But for now, I take the pledge to stay true to the ones listed above. Wish me
luck...I will need it on this new journey that I begin today!
All the best Bhabhi!! May the force be with you.
ReplyDeleteThanks a lot Mario!
DeleteAll the best Yashi....:)
ReplyDeleteThanks Sunil :)
DeleteWish u much much good luck..:D
ReplyDeleteComplete loads of novels in this free time. :)
By the way, thanks for 3 new words for me. :)
Thanks Aditya! What three new words? Didn't get that part..
DeleteAll The Best Yashiji.
ReplyDeleteThank you so much Heshma...great to hear from you on my blog :)
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ReplyDeleteSquealed
Zumba...
I can relate to this post so well. It reminds me of my initial few days in USA. I remember feeling strange filling petrol by our self, consulting cell phone while shopping instead of real people and being happy seeing people in Farmers' market. I really enjoy reading your blog, keep up the great job :)
ReplyDeleteThanks Aditi - it is kind readers like you whose encouragement keeps me going :)
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